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love yourself first
We are told to put on our own oxygen mask before helping others in case of an emergency. It is a logical step, but is hard to remember in...
Ilan Cooley
Oct 3, 20222 min read
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outside the lines
When we are little we colour outside the lines. Life is abstract, so we splash colour everywhere, never considering what the rules are....
Ilan Cooley
Sep 19, 20222 min read
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to-get-her
Just think of the distance, from here, to there. It’s simply a space, filled with matter, and air. It may not be much, or seem much, if...
Ilan Cooley
Aug 29, 20221 min read
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eclipse
When I was a kid, my dad put a giant welding helmet on me so I could safely watch a total eclipse of the sun. It sat heavily on my tiny...
Ilan Cooley
Aug 15, 20222 min read
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one year
Give yourself a year and you can change your life. Not much looks like it did a year ago. It has been a full year since I made a bold...
Ilan Cooley
Jul 12, 20222 min read
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roy-g-biv
I forget a lot of things lately, like walking into a room and not remembering why. I used to use the mnemonic device ROY-G-BIV to help...
Ilan Cooley
Jun 27, 20222 min read
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hold on
"I have trouble processing information, and doing routine tasks. It is hard to navigate personal situations, and read social cues. If I...
Ilan Cooley
Jun 14, 20222 min read
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unapologetically me
The wind whispers, “come with me.” I dash off to dance like a prairie fire. Creative sparks feed the flames. Imagination runs wild. Free....
Ilan Cooley
May 30, 20221 min read
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zig zag
"We need to shatter our snail shell shackles and start to really live again." Life seems linear in a lot of ways, but that’s the macro...
Ilan Cooley
May 24, 20222 min read
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quicksand
I couldn’t have written this last week because I felt like I was in quicksand. Can anyone else relate? There are so many problems facing...
Ilan Cooley
Mar 14, 20222 min read
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heart strings
Are they the ties that bind us to each other? Do they keep us tethered to life, until they release us into the hereafter? I have...
Ilan Cooley
Mar 2, 20223 min read
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tomato soup and grilled cheese sandwiches
I almost died when I was seven. My family jokes about it, the way you can joke when the person lives to tell the tale. It was a real...
Ilan Cooley
Feb 7, 20222 min read
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don't dim to fit in
Due to personal reasons, I will be shining brightly and unapologetically for the foreseeable future. There is enough room for all the...
Ilan Cooley
Jan 17, 20222 min read
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butterfly wings
I’m a wild girl with fast feet in waist high grass that hisses as it bends. The brisk breeze catapults the crafty creature I am chasing,...
Ilan Cooley
Jan 14, 20221 min read
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pass creek
Tears sprung from my eyes and streamed down my cheeks like the water cascading over the rainbow rocks in the pictures I’d just purchased....
Ilan Cooley
Jan 14, 20221 min read
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worthmore
By what measure do you quantify your existence? There is nothing that makes anyone worth more, or less than anyone else. Nothing defines...
Ilan Cooley
Jan 11, 20222 min read
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do one thing
Do one thing every day that scares you…I disagree with this sentiment. I’ve often heard this sort of thing. It is usually attached to...
Ilan Cooley
Jan 3, 20222 min read
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clear the cache
Earlier this year I had a total tech meltdown. There is no worse feeling than the “memory full” warning message popping up on your...
Ilan Cooley
Dec 22, 20211 min read
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the beach
On a beach in Costa Rica, I witnessed the fragile and miraculous journey of life’s ups and downs in a 30-foot journey down a sandy sunset...
Ilan Cooley
Dec 20, 20212 min read
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the golden rule
“I told you that I love you, right?” It was more of a mental check mark on his final to do list than a question. My grandpa and me 1972...
Ilan Cooley
Dec 16, 20212 min read
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